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Black women will negotiate with Black Sexism without blinking an eye, but the notion of navigating race-issues with a non-blk partner without making it the center of the household seems foreign? Just like many bm choose ww who remind them of bw but arent, bw do the same with wm.They actually WANT a black male, but cant find or keep one so they go find a white one and try to TURN him into a black dude.
The noun ( late Middle English) is from French offre.Black males are not excluded from the advent of Sexism – to the contrary they were the FIRST Sexists.Yet bw dont feel the need to champion that cause and place it at the center of all their interactions with them.But…not for that white individual white man, who should have offered to leave his family, be disowned, fired and black balled from his job, risk his freedom and life, and with no income, no family, an arrest recorded and possible gun shot wounds, would walk off into the sunset with his black female mate and live off nothing but sunshine and air. We dont have to scrape the bottom of the barrel for ANY man, but after GENERATIONS of giving our ALL to bm who gave us nothing back, I think we are bit out of order to now expect non-blk men to show up be EVERYTHING we never demanded black males be.Anyone who brings up The Lovings as an example of a man who risked everything for the love of his wife is using the exception that proves the rule. Not even to stick around and help raise HIS damned children. Black women demand more of white men as some form of COMPENSATION for his not being black. We demand more from white men as some form of PENANCE for the him not being our ideal BLACK man. I think black women are bringing our POOR VETTING SKILLS over to nonblk men and dont even know it. Any black women who is expecting random white men to APOLOGIZE for the oppression of the black male – oppression (which she secretly believes that individual white man is responsible for) that has DENIED her access to the type of BLACK man she wants – by expecting said random white men to make it up to her by being Hercules, Brad Pitt and Bill Gates all in one, needs to have a serious discussion about what they TRULY feel about non-blk men. Im amazed at how black women feel the need to make white men apologize for racism, but feel NO IMPERATIVE to make black males apologize for their sexism & misogynoir.Its funny cuz many will accuse bw of partnering with wm to escape their blackness. Many bw partner with wm in attempt to BECOME more black by ‘recruiting’ said wm to The Cause.
They are trying to CONVERT wm into the religion of black suffering since they couldnt find the black one they hoped would lead in that area.Jimmy-Joe did not have the power to keep the Klu Klux Klan from burning crosses on his lawn for being a “n*gger lover.” Individual white men did not have any special powers to magically make all that stuff go away.But often there’s this judgement and lack of historical contextualizing black women engage in whenever we have these discussions.There are MANY pros for dating/courting/marrying/mating/partnering with black women. My suggestion to wm who are looking for a black woman to love would be to make sure she is not using you in some strange reverse Black Love scheme – where she gets to live out her Race-First SJW imperative, not by fighting “the system’ in abstract, but by using her influence to convert a single white man for the cause.It is NOT your responsibility to center your primary love relationship around race politics. Follow Christelyn on Instagram and Twitter, and subscribe to our You Tube channel.Our collection features original art created by artists from many countries such as the Japanese woodcut artist, Takesada Matsutani and Tachibana Morikuni, The Italian artists, Mario Micossi, Filippo Morghen and Maurilio Minuzzi, the American artists, Lawrence Richard Macaray, Susannah Mac Donald, Margo Margolis, Gregory Masurovsky, Robert Crannell Minor, Thomas Moran, August Mosca and Robert Morris, the British artists, Robert Walker Macbeth, Robert Macbeth, William Marshall, James Mcbey, George Mackley, William Miller, Sir John Everett Millais, Terence Millington and Louis Fairfax Muckley, and Hans Alexander Mueller 'Hans Mueller', the french artist, Edouard Manet, Eugene Paul Metour, Adrien Moreau, the 20th century international artists, Arieh Merzer, Samuel Jessurun de Mesquita, Elfriede Miller-Hauenfels, Elfriede Miller von Hauenfels, Louis Myr and many others.